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Should we Appreciate MenBY: Eve | Category: Men | Post Date: 2010-02-08
Appreciating men may be at times difficult. You may need to understand some things that make the man what he is. Some notions about men may be untrue, so you must be able to understand these as well. Men do cry, they can act like kids, they feel they can make things happen and a lot more of the strong image that most people have depicted the man as the one who is the hero of all. This is like a heavy load on their shoulders and most men like to live up to that image, regardless. If you have a man in your life, you would always be able to appreciate his presence in your life. At times, you may find yourself having a bit of a hard time understanding his moods or actions, but you just do, anyway. It is your way of recognizing their worth, and appreciating or understanding them becomes easier because you choose to believe that man is human, after all. The thing is that a man may think of himself in larger image. It's like a heavy load they have to carry on their backs. This image of being a hero in the eyes of a woman and for other men as well is that heavy load. Man considers himself as the gender that can change the world for the better, the masculinity that takes care, protect and save the weak ones and that he is the one who can initiate things to happen. This way of thinking has been going on since time immemorial; that man is the stronger one, so therefore he is the hero of all. Yet, not all men are made of this heavy stuff, so the real man is hidden deep inside one's being. This then makes it a bit difficult to appreciate and understand man all the more. Man thinks he has been put in a top platform by society for a long time, and at times he has to maintain that image as perceived by many. But in more cases, a man may act differently especially when involved in a romantic relationship. You may see some signs of weaknesses and a different kind of behavior of a man deeply involved in a serious relationship. The right thing to do here is to make your man understand that you know how they feel, that you understand such feelings and that you would appreciate them more because of the vulnerable side you see in them. The notion that men don't cry is untrue. Men do cry regardless of age. It is a show of emotion, for happiness or sadness. Some men hide these emotions so they tend to be inconsiderate and uncaring. But it is just for show, most of the time, they are crying in their insides but are afraid to show because of that image they need to uphold. Men can also be lost. They can lose their way going to a place or to a location even when they have come familiar with it. Really, men don't have a GPS inside them to always know the way to a particular place. Men like the best for their family. They are willing to work long hours, miss family gatherings and get involved in more business matters that would enable them to earn more. They are doing this not for themselves but for their loved ones whom most men believe depend on them. Men like to have a Boy's Night Out. This is something that you have to understand because this is an important occasion where men enjoy themselves with their own gender. This is a good time to recall their youthful years, experiences and talk about their family. This can be a night of drinking and merry-making in a restaurant or in a friend's place. Men remember anniversaries. Right, you may think they forget about your anniversaries, but the thing is they are too busy at work to celebrate and be there to an appointed time and place. The notion of forgetting is just a convenient excuse for men when you start to argue about it, but the truth is that he remembers, but work got in the way of celebrating it. Men are like Kids. True, they like to play computer games, sports and other interests. A man would love to spend on a new DVD that he can watch and enjoy a simple thing that can make him happy. He can also buy the newest toy for his child and he is already excited how to play with it. He is like a kid who is happy when he is able to enjoy something new and different. That's the kid in him! Appreciating men is just a way of expressing your care and attention to them. This is good especially when they need it and this would also serve as inspiration for them to do what they think is the best for all concerned. Some men may show the extra effort to be expressive of their feelings of love, others may not, but then they at least try to do so in their own way. It is just you who has to reciprocate in the way that they understand best. 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