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What a couple need to plan before pregnancy and child's birthBY: DrRitu | Category: Health | Post Date: 2009-11-18
Very few couples plan their pregnancy. They can plan the purchase of their first house, first home theater but they fail to plan the birth of their first baby. They treat having their first baby as a milestone of their life, but they do not plan the road map to reach this milestone. When we say planning a pregnancy, we mean to set a planning for the three most effected parameters of life; money, time and relationship. Why it is important to plan pregnancy; money, time and relationship. To answer this I will like to compare a baby with a blank portrait. It's totally up to parents to paint that portrait that will either be liked or disliked by this world. Parents can paint the portrait well in accordance with their state of mind. If the couple is thinking of hate, frustration and tension there is no doubt that they will paint the portrait reflecting their state of mind. Their child will grow with emotional problems. Incase the couple to choose to plan the money, time and relationship their child will grow with explicit confidence, intelligence and mental toughness. But its easier said than done. Bringing up a child with near perfection is like walking a tight rope. One mistake and you end up hurting the child's development. Meet few couples who have just become parents; discuss their experience, this will give you great insights into child care. MONEY If you are spending $100 today, a study says that after having a baby your expenditure will at least grow to $120. The numbers are not important but surely the baby will have their own demands and requirements. A baby needs nutrition, nappies, toys, medicine, vaccination, etc. As the child grows older the requirement will also climb in the form of education, holidays, coaching's etc. Its very important to make finances intact to absorb the extra expenditures due to a baby in your life. RELATIONSHIP Relationship between a husband and wife is greatly affected after inclusion of baby. A new born is helpless and totally dependent on mom and dad for every requirement of life. Unknowingly but baby do manage to give sleepless nights to their parents. While managing her baby, generally moms become so preoccupied that husbands feel left out. The gap between a husband and wife slightly deepens due to inclusion of baby. They get less time for each other to share their feelings. Couples needs to get mentally prepare and ready for a possible communication gap due to bust schedule. TIME Time is the biggest victim of a new born baby. Generally all of us have a very planned and set life style. A new born does not follow any patterns. He will not adapt to your set lifestyle. He understands nothing, he has no control. He cries when he likes, he eats when he is hungry, he toilets in the place he is resting, he sleeps when you are having your evening walk. He does every thing that will never match with your set life pattern. You will have to adjust and modify your life style to suit his needs and requirements. It will not be wise for parents to assume that the baby will fit in their life as water takes the shape of a glass. In long run yes, but during the first few initial years you will find hard to give it a shape. Pregnancy and parenthood is a challenge. Plan your challenge that will make you ready and prepared to take the bump. Keep yourself in the best of your health. Eat health foods and do regular exercise. Fitness is one thing that will be your biggest aid during those tough days. Article Source: http://www.writearticles.org About Author / Additional Info: Additional Articles: * Important Benefits of Breastfeeding for Mothers and Babies. * New Technology for Sunglasses- Better Protection for Your Eyes * God of 22nd century * Costly weight training equipment is not the best thing to get six pack abs * Dogs - Choose the Right Doggy Foods for Them Does this article violate or infringe on your copyright ? It is a violation of our terms for authors to submit content which they did not write and claim it as their own. If this article infringes on your copyrights, then use our Contact us form with the detailed proof of infringement along with the offending article's title, URL and writer name. If you do not hear back from us then contact us again in another 10 days. Thank you. Comments on this article: (0 comments so far) * Additional comments are now closed for this article *
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