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Are we Humans Or Machines - Recognize Your Worth and Give Time to Yourself?BY: Anisa Author | Category: Women | Submitted: 2010-06-28 12:56:23
Sometimes I get the feeling that women are not human beings and I think all the women should think this way because otherwise they won't be able to meet the challenges of life. If women think of themselves as humans then there is a trouble. Then they can think of many things like they could get tired, they also need rest, they also need time for themselves, they also want entertainment and relaxation, but alas due to the hectic life routine, time just pass on and on and we, the women, are just chasing the time to steal some moments for ourselves as well. You must have noticed several times that when the male partner wants to go out with his friends, he just tell it to her wife and leave the place with no tensions of who will take care of kids, what about dinner, what about the preparation for kid's school in the morning, or whatsoever. He is just not worried about any single issue but when we have to go somewhere we have to think of hundreds of things, if not thousand. Life for a woman is far tougher than for men. There is a hell lot of difference between the roles played by the two genders. And now when the roles of men and women are changing in today's changed society, life has become even tougher for the women. With these changed roles the traditional role of the women remained as it is. If the woman is now contributing financially to her family, her role towards her house and kids is not changed. If she is out of the house to earn something, when she returns home it is expected of her to clean the house, feed the kids and make the food unlike the male partner who upon his return to home is too tired to think of anything else than to have dinner and go to sleep. Sometimes this seems quite unfair but yet this is the way it is and after all, it is woman's decision to support her family and even if she ever tries to complain the straight answer from male partner is "who asked you for this favor, you can leave your job anytime." When the situation is like this what we can do other than compromising. But no, this is not the solution. Well, I must say that if you don't think you deserve a better life, who else would ever bother to think about it. Thus there is a need to recognize your worth and just don't accept everything that is put on your shoulders, resist and fight for your right. If you can't do so due to any reasons, then you can at least think yourself as being right to demand some time for your soul. Give time to yourself and do whatever you like, I am sure you can spare 45 min to one hour in a day for yourself, if you wish to. But if you don't try yourself I bet, you would never get time because time is always too short for the things that give you true happiness. You must have noticed that we keep on putting things we like on tomorrow, for example we prefer to buy our kids shoes over ours saying that we will purchase one for ourselves next month but that next month never comes. So try to understand that it is better to put yourself on priority occasionally. Try to differentiate between important, necessary and unnecessary. Following are a few suggestions for you to steal a few moments for yourself: • Go shopping • Meet your friends • Treat yourself with your favorite dish • Watch your favorite TV program • Dance on your favorite song. • Pamper yourself: celebrate a day at spa • Read your favorite book • Go for gardening • Play in the rain • Just sleep • Talk to yourself • Meditate or go for yoga. So select things according to your personality and do whatever you think would make you truly happy. Don't wait for the tomorrow, otherwise I am sure you will keep on waiting for your whole life. Do it just today! Article Source: http://www.writearticles.org/ About Author / Additional Info: Comments on this article: (0 comments so far)
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