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LOVE: Does the Age Really Matter? When She is 19 and He is 29.. It Does !BY: Krishna Krishna Lescano | Category: Relationships | Submitted: 2011-04-08 17:57:56
Age doesn't matter. We all know this love excuse. Well, when it comes to love, I guess everybody is entitled to his own belief. I think age gap depends on how the two involved work out on the relationship and their differences. It happened to this friend of mine. She fell in love with a much younger guy, 9 years her junior. She met him at this very special island which is considered as a paradise by many. Indeed it is! It was just an ordinary night with friends, partying, dancing, drinking and having a good time, 'til there he was, he looked at her for the first time and didn't take off his eyes on her. He wasn't that smooth considering he's western. It took him a lot of rum to finally go up to her and ask her to dance. He asked her name, if she's single or not, then her number. She asked him how old is he then BOOM, surprise surprise! Then the guy said to her " age doesn't matter" and she replied "yes" The guy told the girl he liked her but the girl replied with "tell that to me when you're sober!" The following day, the guy called the girl and asked her out, and told her that he liked her - he's sober! The rest is history. They go out every single day while the guy is in the island. They see each other and do things together. They're like best friends but almost lovers. The guy didn't even know how to kiss the girl. But one fine afternoon, while watching the sunset, the guy finally took the opportunity and had the guts to lean at her, touch her face and kiss her for the first time. It was like magic. They continue seeing each other knowing they're like together but not really. They don't label their relationship, it's just the way it is. Days passed by until one day the guy became unsure. Things got changed and the guy became different. The girl noticed it and thought to herself what could have she done wrong. She ignored the signs, instead went on with what she felt was doing - being sweet to him, care for him and treat him like he's a boyfriend. Apparently, the guy didn't like it. One night they had this huge argument about what was going on between them. And it turned out the guy became UNSURE of himself. He likes her too much but is so unsure of things. He said, he's still young, that he's leaving in a week, that they're not yet a couple and that he likes her a lot. For a girl, that doesn't make sense at all, especially when you're emotional. He said he didn't want the girl to hold his hand or kiss him. It was a shock coz few weeks ago, the guy can't take his hands and eyes off of her, and then all of a sudden, it's not okay anymore? The girl cried her heart out that night, which she never thought she would. The guy said sorry, the girl said it was okay, never told him what she really felt. The guy left. They communicate once in a while. Every word hurts the girl for reasons she don't understand. She should be okay. In the first place, they don't have any commitment and she knows he's just nineteen. Apparently, she forgot it that time. She fell, he did not. Poor little girl. But hey, it's not bad at all. The guy explained he doesn't want to have a long-distance girlfriend. Makes sense. IT's just too hard for my friend because she fell for him. Days passed. She thinks about him all the time and been thinking what could possible went wrong. Well, nothing went wrong. Just wrong time for two people who like each other too much. Unfair, but that's just the way it is. Maybe, they met to teach each other a lesson. That not all things are meant to be, but everything is worth a try. It may work, it may not, but one thing's for sure, there's always a lesson or two learned after. It hurts like hell but it will be worth it in the end. One lesson my friend learned is that she shouldn't expect too much. Some relationships with age gap work, some don't. Case-to-case basis they say and it's true. It's all about being sure with your feelings, and in the end, no matter how any person justifies it, age DOES matter. Article Source: http://www.writearticles.org/ About Author / Additional Info: Comments on this article: (2 comments so far)
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