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The Break Up Effect.... Ohh Get Over It!BY: reshma rohra | Category: Relationships | Submitted: 2011-03-07 02:46:44
A break up pertains to the list of most dejected feelings that a human ever faces. After all it is an end to a relationship which made you feel like the most special person on the face of the earth. Generally every break up is painful, if the relationship really mattered to both. May be you were the one who ended it or may be you were the one who got dumped, or whatever was the reason, the immediate week as soon as this fiasco takes place is the most difficult. You are so addicted to that person that you feel like this is the end of the world and you don't know how you are going to live your entire life without talking or without caring about that person because at that time surviving each day is like a task. But for how long is it going to work this way? You will have to let it go someday or the other because its not going to come back and acceptance is the key to every change.i know it takes nothing to blabber and is very difficult to actually do but you have to do it and there are no 2 ways about it. Treat a break up as a permanent change in your life, which I agree is very difficult to adapt to, but it's certainly not impossible. Yes, you had loved him or her more than anyone else in the world but now you have to accept this truth that you love yourself more than that person that's why you decided to break up and if this break up was not at your will then why the heck are you wasting your sorrows over someone who chose to throw you out of their life! So take your time; cry, whine, make yourself miserable and blame the world for everything but this should not last for many days because no one is going to take any more crap from you. Your family and friends will get irked by your constant weeping and whining. No doubt they love you and all they can do at this moment is to help you get over it and if you are so adamant about not accepting this change then what on the earth are they suppose to do? Whatever they say or do won't help and you will end up becoming a stupid silly coward who is incapable of facing the reality. If it was your 'true love' then there is no question of a break up because where there is love, there is understanding, fidelity, forgiveness, trust and honesty and if even one of these virtues were absent from your relationship then it wasn't a true relationship and it was meant to end one day. Now, be cautious and be sure that you are not making the mistake of turning a misunderstanding or a fight into a break up. Moving on, the most important thing: • Throw away each and everything that reminds you of him/her. For heavens sake you don't need those souvenirs. • Try every thing that helps you make yourself happy because after this disaster you certainly owe it to yourself. • Try not being alone. As they say, an empty mind is a devils workshop. Hang out with your bunch of friends. Be happy that you get to spend more time with them which you couldn't do earlier. • For animal lovers spend more time with your pets and if you don't have one then what are waiting for go buy yourself a dog, they will always be loyal to you. • It's the time to pamper your sweet tooth. Treat yourself with chocolates, ice creams and desserts because they are really good stress busters. • More than anything try to see all the positive things that are happening around you or are likely to happen and try to ignore all the negativity. You don't have to start hating love because true love really exists and you are surely going to get it someday so there's no need to be so pessimistic about it. Love is going to come to you soon but you will have to keep faith in it, just because this relationship turned out to be rotten doesn't mean there is no such thing as a true relationship. You have to calm down and stop thinking that you are the most unfortunate and unhappy person on this earth, there are millions of people who are suffering more than you though the reasons might be different. To conclude this I would just suggest to let go things because it's really not in your hands. Being a moaner is going to help you in no way. Acceptance is bliss, you have got no other choice so do it for yourself, for your family and friends as they cannot see you in pain and also they are the people who will be with you forever, you cannot afford to keep them in pain them because you are hurt. Stop giving so much importance to that broken relationship and rather give attention to yourself and your loved ones. Article Source: http://www.writearticles.org/ About Author / Additional Info: Hi, if you like my article you can visit my blog to see more of my writing. www.thedreamsville.blogspot.com Comments on this article: (2 comments so far)
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