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Top Ways to Get Ex-Girlfriend Back - Win Her Back Today!BY: Vin Jones | Category: Relationships | Submitted: 2010-09-07 13:57:22
We all know what the pain of rejection feels like when we've just been dumped. Our pride gets battered and bruised and we enter that phase of desperation that consumes us as our minds try to figure out ways to get her back. So you want to win her back, but first let's ask you this: Do you truly want to get your ex girl back because you feel rejected and hurt or do you really love her? Right now, you may have entered the temporary insanity phase. It's that phase where you call and text her like 20 times a day, leaving dozens of messages that beg and plead that you are the one for her. If you really love her and not just want to win her back because of your bruised ego, then I'm going to show you some ways to get her back that helped me. So open your mind and let's begin. 1. STOP FIGHTING HER Yes, you read the above statement right. The more you fight with her to change her mind, the more resistance you're going to get from her. Trying to be a salesman and pitch every reason under the sun why she should still stay with you isn't going to win her back at all. Actually, it will have the opposite effect. You're like a car salesman trying to sell a customer a BMW when they want a Benz. It's the same principle. Stop begging and pleading. Just stop it now! You're making yourself look even worse in her eyes. 2. GO WITH THE GRAIN (Not Against It) Remember that line in wood shop? It still applies here. The best thing you can do is to just go with the flow. Trust me. Give her what she wants. Start being ok with the break up. After a while, she will begin to wonder why you're not chasing her anymore and trying to make a sales pitch in why you two should get back together. A few days after me and my ex girlfriend broke up, she called me and I told her, "I think the break up was really for the best." Needless to say, we got into an argument, but that isn't really a bad thing. Let me explain. You do not need to worry if she gets pissed off at you. You only need to worry if she starts acting indifferent to you. Even an angry emotion means she still has some feelings for you. 3. DISAPPEAR This one always seems to get the..."WHAT?" response, but it's absolutely pure gold. Disappear from her little world. This means you do not accept her plea for friendship, you do not contact her with the false disguise of "just seeing if you're ok," line we use to worm our way back into our ex girl's lives. This means you completely drop off the face of her world. You have to give her a sense of loss in order to win her back. She has to feel like she lost something in order to want or desire to get it back. If you're visible and present in her world, you do not give her the gift of missing you. You only make it so much more easier for her to get over you and the relationship you once had. Why would you want to do that? If you don't want to get your ex girl back then remain in her world and keep stalking and annoying the living daylights out of her. If you do want to win her back then you need the constitution to leave her be and let her cool off to re-think the break up. These ways to get her back listed above aren't the only strategies or tips to get your ex girl back. There are plenty more and all the tips and strategies are most powerful when they are used together properly in a cohesive plan. If you want to know even more ways to get her back, then check out the resource box below. Don't think you can win her back without proper knowledge and information. Like I was, you are on a very thin line and any goof up can reduce your chance to ever win her back. Article Source: http://www.writearticles.org/ About Author / Additional Info: Most guys don't win her back. They refuse the proper help and information. I've written a FREE ebook that details the ways to get her back. You will also discover the secret resource that got me my ex girlfriend back. Download your free ebook today. http://www.thebreakup2makeup.com Comments on this article: (0 comments so far)
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